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Your Real Ones Will Keep You Sharp.
Proverbs 27 — The chapter that roasts your whole friend group (for your own good)
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Key Takeaways
Your real ones will hurt your feelings to save your life — and that's worth more than a thousand compliments from someone just keeping up appearances.
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Iron sharpens iron only works if your circle actually creates friction — if nobody's challenging you, you're staying dull.
Jealousy is lowkey worse than anger because anger burns out but jealousy will consume you from the inside and wreck everything.
Stop flexing about tomorrow when you don't even know what today's gonna bring — let other people give you your flowers.
Faithful stewardship over what you already have beats chasing clout every single time, fr.
📢 Chapter 27 — Real Ones Only 🧠
is back with another round of straight-up life wisdom. This chapter is all about keeping it real — with yourself, with your people, and with your priorities.
No fluff, no filler. Just bars about , loyalty, and why the people you surround yourself with will literally shape who you become.
Stop Flexing Tomorrow 🚫
opens with a reality check nobody asked for but everybody needs.
Don't flex about what you're gonna do tomorrow — you don't even know what today's gonna bring, no cap. And while you're at it, stop hyping yourself up. Let OTHER people you. Let a stranger give you your flowers. The moment you start being your own hype man, it's giving pick-me energy.
isn't thinking less of yourself — it's just not making yourself the headline. Let your work speak. 💯
Jealousy Hits Different (and Not in a Good Way) 😤
You know what's heavy? Rocks. Sand. Moving day. But you know what's heavier than all of that? A fool who won't stop provoking people. That weight is unbearable.
And here's the real talk: anger is brutal. Wrath is overwhelming. But jealousy? Jealousy is on another level entirely. Nobody can stand against it. Anger eventually burns out, but jealousy will consume you from the inside and destroy every relationship you have.
If you've got jealousy living rent free in your head, deal with it before it deals with you. 🔥
Faithful Wounds > Fake Love 💔
This one is a whole .
Open rebuke is better than that stays hidden. If you care about someone but never tell them the truth, what good is that love? It's just vibes with no substance. Meanwhile, the wounds from a real friend — the ones who tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you want to hear — those are . A real one will hurt your feelings to save your life.
But an enemy? They'll shower you with compliments while setting you up. Profuse kisses from someone who doesn't have your back are more dangerous than honest words from someone who does. Watch who's actually keeping it real with you and who's just keeping up appearances.
When You're Full, You're Picky 🍯
Quick but hard-hitting.
When you're full, even honey is mid. But when you're starving, even something bitter tastes sweet. That's just facts.
This applies to way more than food. When life is comfortable, you take blessings for granted. But when you've been through it, you appreciate everything — even the stuff that's hard to swallow. Gratitude hits different when you've actually been hungry. ✨
Don't Ghost Your People 🏠
draws a picture: a bird that wanders from its nest is lost, exposed, vulnerable. That's what happens when you drift from where you belong — from your people, your roots, your community.
Good friendships are like perfume — the sweetness of a friend comes from their honest counsel, not just from hanging out. And here's the kicker: don't abandon your friends OR your parents' friends. That relational network matters. When crisis hits, a neighbor who's actually present beats a brother who's three time zones away.
Proximity plus loyalty is the real W. Don't fumble your circle chasing people who aren't even around. 🫶
Be Smart, Stay Sharp 🧠
gets personal here — talking like a father to a son.
Be wise, and make your father's heart glad. Live in a way that when people come at him, he can point to you as the answer. Your life is a reflection of the people who raised you.
And pay attention: a wise person sees danger coming and takes cover. But the naive? They just keep walking straight into it and suffer the consequences. isn't paranoia — it's pattern recognition. Read the room before the room reads you.
Read the Room (Literally) 📢
Two quick wisdom drops about social awareness.
If someone is reckless enough to cosign a stranger's debt, take collateral. That's not being mean — that's being smart. Don't let other people's bad decisions become your problem.
And this one is lowkey hilarious: if you bless your neighbor by screaming at them at the crack of dawn, congrats — that's basically a curse. Timing matters. Delivery matters. Even good intentions can be trash if you have zero awareness. 😂
Constant Conflict Is Exhausting 🌧️
gets honest about what it's like to live with constant arguing.
A never-ending on a rainy day and a quarrelsome spouse? Same energy. Both are relentless, both wear you down, and both make you want to leave the room. Trying to stop it is like trying to hold the wind or grab oil with your bare hands.
This isn't about bashing anyone — it's about recognizing that unresolved conflict in your closest relationships will drain the life out of you. in the home isn't optional. It's essential. 💔
Iron Sharpens Iron ⚔️
This might be the most quoted of all time, and for good reason.
Iron sharpens iron, and one person sharpens another. That's it. That's the whole bar.
You become like the people you spend the most time with. If your circle challenges you, calls you higher, and isn't afraid to create some friction — that's growth. If your circle just tells you what you want to hear, you're staying dull. Sharpening isn't comfortable, but it's necessary. Find people who make you better, not just people who make you feel good. 💯
Tend What's Yours 🌳
connects to reward.
Whoever tends a fig tree gets to eat the fruit. Whoever is faithful to their responsibilities will be honored. It's not complicated — put in the work, reap the results. Stay loyal, get elevated. That's how it works.
And then this line: as water reflects a face, so a person's heart reflects who they really are. You can fake a lot of things, but your heart will always tell the real story. What's inside eventually shows up outside. No filter can hide that forever.
Never Satisfied 👀
Three truths about human nature, and none of them are pretty.
and destruction are never full — they always want more. And guess what? Human desire is the same way. Your eyes are never satisfied. There's always another thing to want, another level to chase, another flex to unlock. That's not ambition — that's a warning.
Then there's the praise test: silver gets tested in a crucible, gold in a furnace, and a person gets tested by how they handle praise. Do compliments make you or inflate your ego? That's the real vibe check.
And finally: you can literally crush a fool with a pestle and grind them up with grain, and their foolishness STILL won't leave them. Some people are committed to the chaos. You can't fix what refuses to be fixed. 🤷
Steward What You've Got 🐑
closes with some practical about managing your resources.
Know the condition of what you're responsible for. Pay attention to what's in front of you. Don't neglect the basics chasing something flashier, because riches don't last forever and neither does status. Crowns don't automatically pass to the next generation.
But if you're faithful with what you have — tending to the day-to-day, showing up consistently — there will be enough. Enough clothing, enough food, enough for your whole household. God's design isn't get-rich-quick — it's faithful stewardship over time.
Stop chasing and start tending your field. That's the real . 🌿